Paradoxical reminiscence of Love

          Naive lovers are in an exuberant mood. Nevertheless February 14th is a one hell of the day for most people presumably.  Due to varied and valid reasons this day gains much more significance against all odds. For a conservative Indian feb14 is yet another influential tactics of the west to undermine our culture. Of course i am not an adherer of moral policing but i oppose the way of expressing the love. Perspective of love differs, when people are inclined to multi-angle views. Engaging lovers might feel ennui for reading these scrap but what to do, there are other people who are willing to go through.... I am not a maven to discuss these things rather i am a humane whose perspectives may vary from the rest. This is not an epiphany or something well i too have a face of being a (classic) lover, brother, future father, friend, relation etc.......

Sabotaging life:

               Being a lover is an awesome feeling!! Yap of course most people will not abnegate that but over the period of time it losing its ‘very’ own fragrance. In most cases it leads the couples in to a whipsaw. But these things will not be felt initially but gradually it grasps without your knowledge, only retrospective fellow can only identify this. In reality lovers turned married couple also facing the crunch much more than the traditionally married couple. Quibblers against my views aren’t left much to argue with me. In south India families are too affectionate with their children even they are grown ups, this puts additional pressure or responsibility to them which their western counterparts never encountered. When the onus are imposed unilaterally on their child {irrespective of men or women}. They are under immense pressure to respond to their parents will. This put them under Make or Break situation which hurts everybody. Only equivocal condition prevails not the amicable one...............

Non futile summary:

              Don’t be a bait of an adolescent age!! People who are searching for the Holy Grail (happiness) in terms of love-life always returned empty handed. There may be a spectacular exception, but it can’t be a Pharos for others to be followed. People who are already in love-life are facing the heat of the hammer inexplicably. Don’t be ugly paradigms for others; make love with others at not the cost of your family who are the ultimate sufferers of your deeds!!  What is known, need not to be said but those who not realised cannot be made understood!!! Aficionado of this doesn't  required  more. Isn’t it????????